A question for only children!?

I am not an only child, but I can see what you mean. I don't think you should worry about labeling yourself though. If you aren't sure who you are, go out and see what really interest you. Take some fun college cles at a community college. Try Art, drama, gym, anything. Find a church. My church and friends and family is where I found out who I really was. Christ brought out the best in me and showed me the person I wanted to be.